Hymen = Virgin Membrane
Hymen Hygiene, Page 1. Go to Page 2
The importance of hymen hygiene training is to teach children how they can prevent damaging this body part by themselves, by other children or by paedophiles. In this stage of human development, the 'no dirty touch' rule should be applied.
This becomes more complicated when the child discovers masturbation by herself or is induced to by other children or pervert adults. Particularly when pubertal hormonal changes cause the hymen not painful to touch, experimenting with strong sexual urges may easily end with unrenewable damage to the hymen done with finger(s), object(s), and penis(es).
Although only the last tool of breaking the hymen results in defloration and finally takes virginity forever, in many instances the insertion(s) of the penis(es) leaves no physical evidence due to elasticity of the hymen. The thickened and elastic hymen reflects influence of estrogens on adolescent body.
The psychological characteristics of adolescent mind are also exceptional: infatuated and easily seduced or just strongly influenced by peer and/or media pressure immature virgins lose their virginity in a casual fling, boozed / drugged up, for nothing, in circumstances not only unsanctioned but plainly disgusting.
In this stage of human development, the young must not be discouraged from non-penetrative sexual activities. Compared to vaginal, anal and oral penetration, any form of solo, or parallel or mutual masturbation seems to be a reasonable choice for those who are not capable to control their sexuality.
The hygiene of the hymen requires stopping any digital or instrumental stimulating enough far from the vaginal vestibule to make sure that the hymen is safeguarded. Both genders must realize that stimulation of the clitoris can result in a female orgasm which is by no means inferior to the vaginal one.
Anatomy of the female pelvic area enables straddle masturbation, not uncommonly involuntary, while bicycling, horse-riding and the like. The visible, covered and hidden female organs are richly equipped with a high density and concentration of nerve endings sensitive to physical stimulation. Pressing them against anything (e. g. a pillow during pillow-humping, piece of furniture, while pole-dancing, or riding someone's leg horse) or exerting pressure on them by squeezing thighs and/or legs double crossing (known as syntribadism, legsqueeze) make possible female masturbation hands free. No fingers or any objects are needed to syntribate. Erotic fantasies (so called day dreams) or any other psychological sexual stimulation and/or syntribating without noticeable hip movements enable covert female self-pleasuring possible even in public places.
Despite the most successful urban myths to the contrary, medical epidemiology approved research says that the hymen cannot be torn through bicycle riding, horse riding, gymnastics, ballet, dancing etc. This is simply impossible because the hymen is well protected by other organs from both sides (from the outside: the outer and inner lips, clitoral hidden parts, and from the inside: the vaginal walls that are not spread apart) and located enough deep in the vaginal vestibule (ca half to one inch [1.27 to 2.54 cms] deep to the outer labia) not to be forcibly stretched to the point of breakage.
The visible, covered, and hidden virginity related female organs.
visible clitoral hood (Latin: preputium clitoridis) covering clitoral glans - hidden in the mons pubis clitoral body – hidden by the lip (Latin: labium, plural: labia) clitoral leg (crus, plural: crura) – hidden by the lip clitoral vestibular bulb and greater vestibular gland (Bartholin's gland) – visible outer lip (Latin: labium maius, plural: labia maiora) and inner lip (Latin: labium minus, plural: labia minora) covering halat hymen and urinary opening (Latin: meatus urethrae)
In the vast majority of those adolescents who hardly can control their sexuality, condemning masturbation leads to premature sexual intercourses, and consecutively to promiscuity, sexually transmitted infections, unwanted pregnancies, abortions, ruined family lives, divorces and children victimization.
Parents and carers of an immature female virgin as well as a mature virgin herself must be aware of avoidable risks to hymen wholeness in medical settings. A strong position while demanding unconditional respect for the female virgin patient’s integrity can save her hymen even in a setting staffed by a personnel openly hostile to virginity. Non-ethical, openly criminal attitudes towards virgin patients occur even among midwives and endanger newborn babies, and among gynaecologists who insist on breaking their patients’ hymens under false pretences.
Certifying presence of intact hymen before the female virgin is put at the risk of being robbed of her virginity can save her hymen, general health and even life in such places like hospital wards (mainly psychiatric but not only), boarding schools, correctional institutions, , military units, and all other similar ones where coercion not uncommonly ends with rape.
For many men worldwide the fiancée’s and bride’s virginity is precondition for engagement followed by marriage. The fiancée who lost her virginity before, sadly realizes that she cannot offer it to her future husband and looks for a handy solution. Unfortunately, that is nothing but fraud. Honesty must be mutual – if either partner in the relationship is dishonest with the other, the relationship will be worthless.
(to be continued)